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In Memory of Patrick Stirling-Aird

On 26 May 2026, at Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in Stirling, a Service of Thanksgiving was held for the life of Patrick Kenneth Stirling-Aird of Kippenross.

The service brought together Patrick’s family, friends, colleagues, and members of the local community. Through readings, hymns, music, memories, and tributes, it celebrated a life marked by kindness, quiet strength, public service, and a deep love of the natural world. It was a service of thanksgiving in the fullest sense: dignified and moving, but also filled with gratitude for the many ways in which Patrick touched the lives of those around him.

The Jane Stirling Project was honoured to contribute to this occasion through the music of Frédéric Chopin, performed by Anna Dębowska, and a spoken tribute by Marcin Jaroszek. This part of the service was especially meaningful because Chopin’s music lies at the heart of the connection between Patrick Stirling-Aird, Kippenross, and Jane Stirling — Patrick’s ancestor, Frédéric Chopin’s greatest Scottish benefactor, and one of those who helped preserve his legacy. In this setting, Chopin’s music was not simply a musical offering, but a reminder of the history, friendship, and shared commitment that had connected Patrick and Susan Stirling-Aird with the Jane Stirling Project over many years.

The connection between Jane Stirling, Chopin, Kippenross, and Holy Trinity Church has been at the heart of the Jane Stirling Project since its beginnings. In 2016, the first concert was given in this very church to commemorate Jane Stirling. Over the years that followed, Patrick and Susan Stirling-Aird became generous and greatly valued supporters of the project, helping to bring Jane Stirling’s story back into view through concerts, meetings, and many shared events.

As was said during the tribute:

It is no understatement to say that what later developed into the Jane Stirling Project would not have been possible if it had not been for Patrick’s support and involvement. He immediately recognised that, however beautiful that first concert was, it should not remain only a passing remembrance. He understood that Jane Stirling’s story, for too long left in the shadows of history, deserved to be retold. And over the last ten years, through concerts and many shared events, we have together helped bring it back into view.

I can only speak from my own experience through the project, but I remember — and always will — Patrick’s knowledge and hospitality. I remember how his natural reserve gradually gave way to a warmth that we came to recognise and appreciate each time we returned to Kippenross. And I remember his unobtrusive way of sharing with us the history of his family, and of letting us into a world that meant so much to him, and that matters so deeply to us.

In doing so, Patrick helped transform a family memory into a living cultural presence — one that extended beyond Kippenross and beyond Scotland, while always remaining rooted here.

The Jane Stirling Project remains deeply grateful to Patrick for the trust, knowledge, and hospitality he gave so generously over the years. His support helped shape both the public life of the project and the spirit in which it continues.

We are also profoundly grateful to Susan and Lucinda Stirling-Aird for their kindness, friendship, and continued encouragement. Patrick will remain warmly remembered by everyone connected with the Jane Stirling Project.

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